Reflection:
I feel like the concept of genuineness, or showing up to sessions as my authentic self, is what has helped me develop great therapeutic relationships with my clients. Prior to my internship, I felt as though I always needed to put on a poker face when clients shared things with me. Over the course of my internship, I have learned which situations call for a more neutral response and which situations allow for genuine reactions. I have come to understand that being genuine does not mean reacting to everything, but rather being present, authentic, and intentional in how I respond to my clients.
When clients are able to see that their therapist is not a robot and is showing up as their true self, it can help them feel more comfortable sharing vulnerable things. I have learned that I can maintain professionalism while still allowing my personality and genuine reactions to show. I want to continue finding that balance and creating a space where my clients feel safe, understood, and comfortable being their authentic selves, just as I strive to be my authentic self with them.